We tend to reveal a lot about our personalities (and ability to receive criticism or resolve conflict) from our postings.
Is the way you are responding to Mr. Bond the way you typically respond to criticism?
What's holding you back from posting the problems you had in your M? Mr. Bond said it wouldn't make sense for us to offer you advice (based on DB principles) if you haven't read the book. But that doesn't mean you can't start your own self-reflection, does it?