Divorced and moving out.....still hopeful

[NewB3]

My final walk through went great. Have been helping around the home here, prior to my exit. Cleaning and prep for realtors caravan. I was thanked very much several times. Being the guy only a fool.....
Well, I have been getting in things for my new home. got utilities and cable/web changed. Let her know today that Cable/web would be off Saturday if she wanted to call for the channels she wants. Working on packing up and getting truck lined up. Moving in right after closing, but reality is I will not be there for the night until Sunday. Will be packing some last minute boxes after I load truck tomorrow night. Have a buddy coming over Friday evening for big pieces of furniture. Will spend Saturday unpacking to bring empty boxes back over. Well, actually I'll let her worry about coming to get them. I need to move and cannot unpack and take my time. Technically, I have until 10/25, but the sooner the better. That is what she wanted...move forward. I am moving forward and focusing on me. I have no time for classes, or other things as I have painting and renovations to do myself. Making that place my own. S11 will be there to help me this weekend, my birthday. Not heard about s3.5 coming over, so I will get him for dinner on my birthday. Not asking earlier and she has not mentioned my special day. NP, I will make it what I want.
I did ask for our foreign marriage cert. It was not a welcome request, but said I could have it. I commented that I just did not want it thrown away. I was told that it would not be thrown out. I will not ask again, we will see. Reality is about to be a slamming door to her. I am not interested in being friends right now. If she wants more than that, we can talk. However, for now, going dark.
Thanks for this post advice, I am not sure what all I need to be doing other than focus on me. Is there a good post DB book? I did find a you tube series on getting over it and staying strong. More of setting boundaries for the non-friendship relationship.