Bumped into ss25. He is working not with h anymore he cannot tolerate the lies being told about him and his standard of work, when the work stuff ups are not him.
He mentioned h has issues, well douh! Memory loss h cannot remember something said within the last hour. H can fly into temper over nothin in seconds flat. Manic working or not working.
A quote from ss25 is h has gone from normal fit fun 50year old to a mental basket case of 90! He is very concerned about dementure or other issue. Me, all I can do is validate what ss said and I offered support I did say if you need me or want anything please don't feel shy. It's not my drama. I felt sad to say relief for me being apart, that's not to say I'm not going to help out of asked.
My concern is that h assulted my son last year out of the blue, and that if h is suffering from a health issue then ss could be at risk because we live rural it's often not possible to get police or ambos. Distance of 40km to nearest services.
Works been awesome, spring is here. Breeding season too. Need to get mares organised. Still working on my original goals of fencing and filling my rubbish bin each week with clutter. Also looking a finishing my round yard that I started last year before I inured my knee in a major way. Studying for my truck licence (hoping to sit test after mediation next week) and haven't seen my gun licence come back yet either.
Mediation next week, my sons a bit touchy but far better. He's going to his dads tomorrow for at least the weekend. He's been up and down at night so I need a break from his non sleeping patterns. Given h possible undiagnosed health issues, I am now much more impatient for the sep agreement to be in place, as h refuses to admit he even has any issues.
M 46 h54 Both married before T 11y Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads! Ms 18 hs 26
