Thank you for your responses. I think it bruised his ego a little but oh well. He sure hasn't been feeding mine! I have always been very independent by nature. I grew up with a single mom and was trained to never rely on anyone, do it yourself! So it comes naturally and I believe it is one of the traits my H fell in love with. I guess he isn't liking it much right now, but it is a part of me that I had lost and missed!
This journey has been bringing out parts of me that got lost during marriage and motherhood. I have been reading novels again like crazy. Taking bubble baths. Watching chick flicks and old funny sitcoms. Buying flattering clothes and lingerie. Spending time with my girlfriends. Planning things for ME. It feels good. However, I miss having that other piece. The husband to come home to with hugs and kisses. The husband to talk to about my day, who actually cared. The husband to plan outings with. The husband to snuggle up with. I miss it so much.
Why doesn't he???
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Me 48 H 46 S 11 M 2004 BD 8/13 H moved out 2/15 -live in the present, enjoy the beauty around and within you, explore your new future-
