One thing that stood out that my W said to me the other night was how my contacts with Ann were "the ultimate betrayal".
She said this is the one thing that has completely shut the door on any chance for us to reconcile.
I don't see it. Can one of you perhaps make me see her PoV on this? I'm really trying to understand it.
Please don't fall for this. I believe you are trying to make sense of nonsense. She has you right where she wants you.. No confidence and head spinning...
That way you won't mess up her affair by contacting Ann again.
You need to get working toward being more confident. A confident person wouldn't waste one second of time analyzing or believing that spin move that she pulled on you.. AND it seems to be working.....