One thing that stood out that my W said to me the other night was how my contacts with Ann were "the ultimate betrayal".

She said this is the one thing that has completely shut the door on any chance for us to reconcile.

I don't see it. Can one of you perhaps make me see her PoV on this? I'm really trying to understand it.

M: 15 years
BD: 6/25/14
EA/PA: starts 5/14/14
11/30/14 - A ends
5/15/15 - D is finalized.
11/28/15 - Start of new LTR with a wonderful woman (and still going strong)!