today is Xbfs bday.... DD asked him out last night for tonight. Today, he asks me if I want to join them. I think its great that he asked me to join.
Should I go?
1) If I go, He gets nice family time for his bday, like he wants. (he did not come to mine, however, I could tell he was on the fence) 2) If I don't go, I could just say that I will just let the two of them go out as we were just out for beer/pizza last night. .... (therefore I am not at his convenience).
WARNING: there will be a rebuttal to anyone who may comment as I am withholding a key piece of information that I do not want to be part of anyones initial response.
Thanks!!
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
