I hear you on the stats. I'm an epidemiologist - early on I searched for stats...then I critically evaluated them and determined that they weren't generalisable to my sitch...then I conceived of ways to design studies to get better statistics....I'm so glad to be done with that phase!
What will be will be. No one can predict the future. That was true pre-BD, too.
H 37 Me 36 Together 15 years Married 5 years No kids BD Apr 2014 H moved out 2 Jun 2014