Mighty .. hats off .. I follow your sitch but have little to add/say as I just am in awe at how you are holding up with it all. I would say that the latest things from him ... I have started to see in my W .. maybe they are poking the head out of the tunnel just a bit, little apology here, looking inward there ... try not to throw the sledge hammer at them in this case, your H has created a TON of damage and I recall reading somewhere how we need to have that path home paved and looking like an option to them ... there will be plenty of work and suffering in the reconciliation phase. I for one need to remember that as ... like I am sure many can relate .. there is a part in us that wants them to suffer for the pain they caused a little bit.
