Maybe you should google and read up on "no contact" and "transparency plans" and "infidelity" and learn more about how to set them up, what their purpose is, etc.

M57 W 57; D30 D28 S24 S20 GD7 GD2 GD1 GD5m GD1m
BD 5/07; W's affair 5/07-8/07

At the end of every hard-earned day, people gotta find some reason to believe. (Bruce Springsteen)