Second that on the MLC and the memory loss .. my W has admitted it herself ... we have been separated a lmost a year now and she still is confused on what days she has our S.
I think you handled the Handyman fine .. I was just reading alot of the MLC traits ... and to me you taking care of it with a handyman shows you are in a sense GAL and doing what needs to be done without him. MLC or not .. that stings ... in his head he probably thinks you need him ... I know my W does that (our sitchs seem to mirror in alot of ways) I had all my shirts pressed and made dentist appts for S and she was upset saying she could not take time off work, I informed her I was taking him and already took the day off ... the look on her face was priceless ... 180 for me.