You can be offended as you want. I've been dealing with a sitch as bad as yours for twice as long and I never once hit anyone, let alone while involving my kids. I didn't restrain myself because I wasn't incited to violence. I restrained myself because violence is neither ok nor constructive, and my husband is not a possession to be fought over like a bone between two dogs.

And it has not yet worked in your favor. You are deluding yourself.

But fear not, I won't intrude on your thread again.


Me42, H40
D12, S8, S7
A revealed: 7/13
Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15

She believed she could, so she did.