Labug, I don't know. It depends on the day and how I feel about my emotions. I was pretty strong and constant with my emotions after a couple months of separation. Now I am on the roller coaster again.

I am hoping after a week away my emotions will level out and I will be able to give myself an honest evaluation.

How does one know if they need IC?

M:34 XW:34
Together: 10y
Living: 9y
Married: 7y
Son:6 Son:4
Separated: 12/28/13
Piecing: 5/2/14
Separated 2nd: 10/16/14
W filed, but pulled it: 11/5/14
papers served: 1/27/15
D final: 3/6/15