Starsky, thanks for that, it applies to my sitch too.
I hope this isn't a hijack, but I wanted your thoughts... My H's OW also works for his same company, but far down the food chain and in a different company. He does encounter her from time to time, usually via Skype or other electronic medium, but he's in her office annually. He claims he "tried," but the truth is he was chasing her while he was "trying." She just didn't want him.
How long does it take for him to not be influenced by his experience with her? I was told he was through with her in July but I think he's missing at high something fierce. Now he says he's opposed to being in any relationship at all.
MDU, I'm sorry this is where you are in your journey. Those words HURT. I know.
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15
