My ex-fiancé gave me the same spiel - that he just doesn't feel it for me right now, while he is in the midst of a relationship with the OW. How ridiculous for them to think they can have feelings for us without working at it, when they are in the midst of a romantic affair with someone else! How immature! It's also clear that these guys have no clue what real love is! Real love is not all rainbows and ponies - it's all other less exciting but wonderful stuff that develops over years of being together as a family and committing to work at a relationship.
Your H and mine will inevitably disappointed when the initial magic wears off and the pixie dust goes away...
Engaged Aug 2009 Fiancé had doubts Jan 2010 Happily re-engaged July 2012 Discovery of affair July 2014 Separated July 2014 Fiancé is confused about whom to choose Chose the OW Oct 2014
