I haven't given up hope. It's the probabilities in me (Economics major, poker player) that is trying to guesstimate the sitch. I wonder if the Freakonomics guys have taken on divorce and associated stats with any sort of rigor?
Me: 43 XW: 43 T15 M14 D21, SS15, S11, D8 BD: 8/6 EA / possible PA discovered 9/29 D final 10/20