Putting my life back together

[NewLeaf]

You guys are so great, thanks Ahoy and Jim. I think it will definitely help with the detaching. I was willing to live in kind of a limbo state where we were together and I was able to show positive changes, but the trip she went on with him a couple of weeks ago was a turning point for me. I don't think I could continue to live with myself going on four months with her in the house and carrying on without really building up resentment on my part. Now I really have a chance to be true to myself, to turn the page and really focus on the changes I want to make without having to think about how I need to act around her on a daily basis.

Thanks again everyone for the support. This would all be so much harder and more scary without this site.