U-turn, you are seeing some positive progress. Just learn from my mistakes and don't apply any pressure. Keep up the light conversation. Accept the crumbs and live with the limbo. If your sitch is not deteriorating then that's a positive.

That's great news that she's looking to transfer to another facility. She's working on getting away from the OM. That's a step in the right direction. Be supportive but not over the top.

Keep up the PMA and detachment. Stop mind reading and focus on yourself. Time is your friend right now. Be patient and keep up your self-improvement program. Don't pursue. She will be drawn back to you. I know it's hard - I'm struggling to stop pressuring my W - takes discipline.

You're doing well - keep it up.

(Pray for Dawgy - he needs our support right now)


M: 59 W: 53
M: 9 yrs
T: 14 yrs
No kids together but D30(hers), S27, S24, D21(all 3 mine)
W moved out 11/18/2013
D-Day 12/14/2013
W moved back home 12/1/2014