Bravo, you should also find the user Thorton (might be spelled Thornton). Check out his sitch from earlier in the summer. He had a WAW (may have been GF, but I digress) for a few weeks. He went totally dark, gave her space. Eventually she started cracking the door open, and the last thing we knew here, they were piecing. It's not all hopeless for LBH's recently!

And the other thing I'll note is he timeline of some of the vets who had WAW and eventually reconciled. They were S for a year or more. One guy was S for almost 2 years. Also, I have seen people on here who eventually reconciled after papers were served. And although I haven't seen it on here, many people remarry after D.

So don't lose hope! But also don't forget the most important thing right now: yourself, your 180's, and your independent happiness. Focus on those most of the time. Don't think you will "miss a sign she wants to reconcile". From everything I've seen, WAW's who came back eventually made their intentions obvious


Me 38, WAW 30
D11 (former marriage)
S2
T 8 years
M 3 years
BD 8/20/23
S 8/20/23