Anyway, a great uniting with the kids today.. Tears did flow from all eyes, and now they are on a sleepover with me for the rest of the week.. Had a fun day with them today (in between unpacking), and my PMA is through the roof ATM!!..

Went in with no expectations with W's reaction to seeing me, and tried to make it as less awkward as possible for her, and it seemed to work.. We had a coffee and good chat when I picked the kids up.. I did what was expected as I let her talk, and I made sure I listened.. I validated her comments, and kept eye contact with her whilst she spoke.. All in all it went well.. There was no physical contact although there did seem to be a little bit of good "tension" there..

She made a comment on how good I look, and I replied with "thank you, you are looking well yourself".. She also asked if I could put the light bulbs mentioned earlier when she picks S6+8 up to which I replied yes.. She then asked what I'd be coming for tea that night, and would I mind if she stayed for tea.. I said that would be fine as I would be sorting the kids out, so I'll just make a little more..

Now to make the most of the time with the kids!!..


Me:35 W:31
S6 + S9
T: 10 years M: 7 years
BD: 7/2014
S: 8/2014
W has new BF: 12/2014
Still fighting the good fight!!..