Originally Posted By: MrBond
"would thing that there are people that actually have success and write about it? hope they do not just succeed at reconciliation and then leave the board leaving us hanging....."

Actually this happens all the time. People believe they save their marriages, so they just disappear. Sometimes we hear about them coming back because they left too soon or didn't continue the lifelong "changes" that they promised to do and their spouses left again.
unfortunate frown it would be great encouragement to have a success section for people to go to when they feel like giving uo

me-42
w-33
d-3
together-6
m-4yr
6/1/14-w check out
6/15/14-EA?
8/1/14-mc
9/1/14-IDLY-started DBing
9/15/14-w suggest separation
10/17/14 wife is done
12/13/2014 - wife move out
me file 1/1/15