I will share one firsthand story of a former WAW I met at church. They were S for almost a year and I believe her mother fell ill. Her H had been working on himself, but she assumed he'd moved on. But he supported her like crazy (what she would accept) when she found out. She realized he really did love her. They are slowly piecing things back together.

Of course that is their story. As of right now it doesn't really apply to mine. Not sure about you, but you were asking for a former WAW testimony. That's the best I can do seeing that I'm the exact opposite (LBH) hehe

Hang in there, friend. I know it is dark for you right now but don't give up. Don't give up on your M, but especially don't give up on yourself. If you don't find yourself, find a way to be independtly happy, and find a way to work on yourself, you probably have even less of a chance to save your M, too.

I was reading through some older threads earlier and found a little gold mine from 25yearmlc. Follow the link below, then scroll down to her post on Detachment from 7/29/14 at 8:43 pm. If the time stamps are messed up, it is about the 32nd post from the top. Well worth your time

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...658#Post2470658


Last edited by Card29; 10/08/14 07:16 AM.

Me 38, WAW 30
D11 (former marriage)
S2
T 8 years
M 3 years
BD 8/20/23
S 8/20/23