My Sitch: my H and myself have been married 16 yrs, and like any marriage have had ups and downs. But, nothing I would have ever thought would constitute him hiding an affair with a good friend of mine, as well as the mother of one of my sons good friends that he attends High school with! I don't even know this man anymore..he has said some of the meanest things I've ever heard since I've discovered there affair and 100% supported everything she's said (she said if I wasn't so fat maybe my husband wouldn't have had to pursue her) and done to me! I've caught them in a hotel, and him at her house with her kids when I gave him the opportunity to stay with his son and several other lies I've caught him in! At first he kept saying he just wanted to work this out without attorneys and just be separated..but feel like I was forced to file divorce because he kept threatening me by saying I would get nothing and kept lying about what he was doing and putting this HW before his son. He let her file a stalking order against me by all false accusations (obviously was dismissed) knowing that it would keep me from doing any school activities with our son because she would be there. He blames this whole thing on me but I've been a faithful wife and as sick as it sounds I still love my husband very much, and miss him being at home with his son and I. He blames it on me not losing weight, and not showing enough affection, nagging about helping around house, says I treat him like a child, a pre-existing health condition that could eventually have some affect on me and the list just keeps going! He won't take any responsibility for anything he's done..why? It kills me to know he's with this "friend" putting her before his family! She was married just as long but with three kids and a very sick husband, how can he claim to love somebody that would do that to a husband that is basically knocking on Death's door and leaves her kids home alone all night to be with my husband? She hasn't worked a day in her life, doesn't have any type of education she didn't even graduate High school it obvious she was looking to provide a better life for herself by taking my husband that can provide her a better life without her still having to get a job! What do I do...I want my husband back! FYI.. I did buy the book DB still eagerly waiting for it to arrive
M:37 H: 38 Married 16/ T20 Son: 16 Caught cheating with HW (also my good friend) 8/20/14 Papers delivered: 9/4/14
