wife came home with daughter, didn't say much when i asked her how work was. the wife said she was hungry! This is where I would normally suggest going out to eat.....I did not suggest anything this time. I simply said that I have class tonight and I will probably be eating a little earlier than normal. then I just told her I'm here if she wants to talk about how her day went and I went and played with my daughter. put on the happy face and really enjoyed doing puzzles and reading with my daughter.
I was getting ready to warm up some left overs and asked my wife if she wanted me to warm up some for her and my daughter while I was at it, she said she would get it. I warmed mine up and sat down to eat. my daughter sat on my lap wanting mine LOL (not normal) so my wife got to it and hurried to get their warmed up and we ended up having dinner together. I cleaned up and then went to class.
arrived at home and had a snack while my wife was watching her show on tv and only exchanged a few words of small talk. nothing major, but there didn't seem to be any tension. i'll take that over a cold shoulder any day. I managed to keep the happy face all evening and keep my mood up all day and night.
this is just my way of documenting things I do and to see what works. but feel free to add comments. and or suggestions?
are there any specific SUCCESSFUL threads that I can read? I'd like to read some positive stuff. seems most threads are all the same....would thing that there are people that actually have success and write about it? hope they do not just succeed at reconciliation and then leave the board leaving us hanging.....
me-42 w-33 d-3 together-6 m-4yr 6/1/14-w check out 6/15/14-EA? 8/1/14-mc 9/1/14-IDLY-started DBing 9/15/14-w suggest separation 10/17/14 wife is done 12/13/2014 - wife move out me file 1/1/15
