I'm doing so much better at detaching. Also made a bit of progress legally, but they sent me a discovery request which is just a huge mountain of financial paperwork. I delivered some furniture to her at her place. She actually gave me a wine cooler. First nice thing she's done in weeks. I mean weeks. I had no idea it would mean so much to me. Anyway, I took it home and had some pizza. :-)
It's hard to tell if reality is setting in with her or not yet. When I gave her the monthly child support check she seemed to have a look of remorse. I hope she's waking up but no expectations there.
Me:40 W:39 M:Dec 95 Split: Jul 14 W Filed: 9/16/14 Several Children (including adopted)