Bleh, I immediately regret my prickly response. I know I need to focus on myself. To be a better person regardless of what happens to the M. It's just hard as when I look at my issues I don't see anything that justifies what's happening now.
Reading DR is a challenge, as I am realizing that I am just not a solution oriented person! I think and think and do less. That is the biggest change I have to make. Today, when I decided to stop thinking and start doing, things got better. It's a daily struggle. Did it stop W from leaving tonight "to study"? No, but I can go to bed feeling accomplished. And I can keep going tomorrow.
M: 33 W: 33 M: 9 T: 10 3 S's: 8, 6 and 1.5 BD: 8/3/14 Living together