He called me this morning and asked to get together after work. And--- I went. We spent 2 1/2 hours together. Talking, laughing and yes, I did a some flirting...
When we left, I gave him a big hug and a few kisses and told him that I love him dearly and that I am praying for our marriage. He smiled and then he said, "I just don't think I can commit to anyone right now." And then, "I'm not ready to be romantic with you." So.... I'm not sure what this all means.
If he can't commit- does he want a divorce?? Of course he can continue with the A because he doesn't have to commit to her, she's married too... and he gets to have his physical needs met and has her to go here and there with... " That really hurts.....
