Shining I'm so sorry you are dealing with all of this spew! They really are crazy!
I think that fixation on the LBS and need to D is just their way of prolonging having to face their own chit. At one point several months ago my H said to me " well you're not doing X anymore" ...... He went on to list like 10 complaints. " but I don't know if I can get over it".
Really? I thought that was called marriage and give and take and being grown ups who learn and change together. Oh and by the way YOU had the EA dude!! ( that's what I wanted to say but didn't).
I also saw a darker time a month or two after my H's suicide attempt. I was very worried but he never quite seemed to sink as far as previous. I hope it is the same for your H.
Hang in there!!
Me 41 H 40 M 20 T 23 S 19,16, 8 D 13 BD1 dec 2012 not sure going to work BD2 sep 2013 seeking a D Filed oct 2013, D Feb 2015 Life is about daring greatly, about being in the arena- Brene Brown
