Do I walk away from WAW? (1)

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I appreciate your help but I really don't get your tone. You asked for a list of our marriage issues, I thought that you wanted those details. I'm attached to my wife because we've been together for ten years. I don't see why you have to be condescending to me, I'm not an idiot.

Anyway, I'm honestly struggling defining what the issues are that I own here. I will redo my list

- unhappy with job, unfulfilled and stressed out with time demands vs it not being a worthwhile stepping stone to something else
- depressed, withdrawn, passive, in my own head a lot
- irresponsible with finances, more a problem of not paying attention to them rather than overspending
- often bad at communicating w/logistics, forgetting to tell W about things until the last minute
- afraid or avoidant of confrontation, sometimes making W bear the brunt of my avoidance
- not taking care of myself
- don't connect with W the right way. I am analytical, she is spiritual, and I need to make changes there

How's that?