Been away from the Boards for a while...sorry about that.
I want to comment about the bank thing:
If you are uncomfortable with H having access to joint accounts and controlling them, one suggestion is to open a bank account in your own name and have your checks DD'd into them. Then you'll have some control over how your money is managed because there's only ONE person on them. Something you might want to think about.
Originally Posted By: claire7
But now that nearly a year has passed, you're right-- I have to face some realities. There have been some significant (small, but significant) positives lately...but is that enough? Dunno.
25years, wonka, labug--what do you think?
I see a lot of the problems here is that many posters have this illusive "timetable" then when it comes and goes, they all become disillusioned with the process. This is why I strongly emphasize the importance to try and embrace the limbo by GALing for it takes your mind off of the sitch.
Make sense?
Back to your question. Is it enough for you? Are you looking at this as a zero sum game?
