Sorry to hear about your separation. My H's PA was revealed 1 day before our 29th anniversary. He moved out two weeks later saying ILUBNILWU. I feel your pain. I broke down several times today and had to take a xanax just to keep from totally losing it. I recommend trying to find a DivorceCare group in your area to meet with. It's for people who are separated as well as divorced or planning either of those options. My group has just met 3 times and I have found them to be extremely supportive. Also I am all for getting meds from your doctor if needed. One thing I have learned in my DivorceCare group is that the pain one experiences when going through this is as bad or worse than the pain involved with losing a loved one. My H has been gone since June 15th and I am still raw. Hoping to get lots of support and advice from this site.
Me: 54 H: 58 Married: 29 years Together 33 years H admitted to A: 5/29/14 H moved out :6/15/14 OW lives 4 hours away and "occasionally" stays weekends with H D23 D18
