Do you feel relieved? Try to find a way to that. I would LOVE if my W would do that right now, I even asked her to, which she interpreted as me being cruel. Some time to yourself would be great for you and probably benefit her as well.
M: 33 W: 33 M: 9 T: 10 3 S's: 8, 6 and 1.5 BD: 8/3/14 Living together