Looks like I got blocked once again. Anytime I seem to be making progress.....slam. Lots of threats to get a lawyer on her behalf. She was frustrated today that one of my kids activities would occur when she wanted to do another activity. This was the first time she mentioned it, and I was accused of not listening to her at all. She said she needs to get a lawyer so she could have a voice, and then denied having ever okayed the activity. This is the second week of the activity, and the first time anything has been mentioned.
I wrote an angry bitter and to be honest hurtful and mean letter to her, then I read it over and deleted it. Not worth it, I'm not sure if that follows DB principles, but it worked for me. Then I questioned myself, is this how I truly feel? I like to think the self check and realization that sending it would not do anything shows progress and my growth. It was very heartfelt, but it was laden with consequences, which she is realizing on her own.
