Claire-- Is DB Worth it? Part 8

[Maybell]

Claire, Georgiabelle said everything I was thinking.

But I also wanted to say... For a really long time I felt like I was sometimes hoping the vets would stop by, look at my sitch, and say, "Yes, you will reconcile with your husband, and it will be on this date and here is how it will happen." And of course that never did happen. Sometimes I wonder if that's what you're looking for? Because in my view you do get good traffic, and a ton of support from people who care about you. And when you post on other people's threads Starsky and 25 both agree with you. You know your stuff.

I wish your H would come around on your timetable, but as much as we'd like to, nobody here can be oracles. We are all pulling for you, though!

WRT the sleeping thing... can you rearrange your room, or move into a different room in the house for a little while? And failing that, I would make sending yourself to bed an intentional thing. Even if you don't like it, you've got to do it, so make it work for you, including by turning it into a discipline. And what Ss said is spot on.

Wish I could say more that was helpful, but I am rooting for you!!!