Since I found out there has been no contact that I can find. I have been monitoring her email, phone, text and FB and whereabouts.
Does she know you have monitored her activities?
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So it may be possible they never met, I just don’t know. She did admit that she had told him she loved him but says she didn’t mean it.
What would that mean to you?
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She said she was sorry but didn’t show a whole lot of other emotion about it. Like it really was no big deal to her, I have some trouble with that.
"Here, let mamma kiss the boo-boo and make all better" is essentially what she is doing. All the sex, daily saying ILY, not wanting to discuss what brought the M to this place, acting as no big deal, and just wanting to happily move forward.............she's trying to get you to settle down and believe there was really nothing to it.
To a woman, an EA can be quite serious b/c it's all about her feelings. Those were very heavy words they were throwing around and a lot of phone time, not to be a big deal. Even if they were never together.....it was still serious.
Be careful, I think you are being played.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
