Because several times when I had the kids with me we would catch them all together as in W with OM and her sister was there with them .

This was when i suspected an affair but W was still at home .

I used to catch/see my W with OM by complete fluke or intuition .

For example driving back from the shops and they would be driving in the other direction etc some may call it luck but I think it's unlucky .

Also didn't help that the first time the W left she stayed at her sister which is only half a mile from where I live so the chances of seeing them all together was rediculous .
In the end the only way was to drive the long way round to avoid the sisters bedsit.



Last edited by South74; 10/07/14 08:00 PM.
Me 40
W 37
Together 22 years
S18
D12
WaW 12/08/14 after affair exposed , suspected for several months
W returned home for 2 weeks to see if can handle family life
After the 2 weeks she has left .