Thank you, uR. You're on the money. (As usual). He wants this done, and done now.
I won't meet with him if you think it's best to just deal with everything via text and email. I really do believe he needs this D to happen. I am not trying to stop it. I'm not trying to change his mind because I can't. This is much bigger than that.
Without a doubt in my mind, I know that R isn't even a little bit possible. I see how broken he is. I can't fix him. I quit trying to change his mind. I'm going with all of it. Like the house, and everything else, I know the process.
I was working from my own gut, and thinking of who I want to be, and how I want to be treated, regardless of what H does. I'm so ok not meeting.
It may sound weird, but part of it was an excercise for me to just ask. Just to ask for the respect I deserve is hard sometimes. Does that even make sense?
This whole thing started because he got a bill in his mail from the ortho. The insurance is under his name, so it was forwarded to his apartment instead of mine. That was enough of a reminder of what he no longer wishes to be a part of, for the spew fest to begin.
I haven't responded. I probably won't, at least not for a long time.
Oh.... Now he texted a screenshot of someone's fb post announcing a big company near us that is hiring.... Can he really go this all over the place this quickly? The speed of his mood swings is getting faster..... I've never seen anything like it.
