There is a point in showing your d that marriage CAN mean sucking it up for a time, while you figure things out. It's not the same as dating a guy who mistreats you, and with whom you'd quickly terminate a relationship.
Your daughter can see what a serious VOW the marital words are... and SHE will know you did your best to make this work even when it hurt like he11 and you wanted out. There is a lot of intrinsic value in that.
So you hurt like he11 - and yet you still hung in there - until you knew if there was a future with him, that would yield you AND HIM happiness.
That ^^^ has value.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
