hey S, I only have a few moments right now. I am sorry he is spewing but not at all surprised.
His life is not looking at all like he thought it would. It's making him spin. So now, he has to really get rid of you. Yea, thats it, that will do it....NOT! But that is his mindset.
Please do not engage...like the word game thing. Just ignore what you can. You cant fight the trajectory of this right now. He has to do this in his mind.
No need to answer all of that because nothing you say will make a difference.
I agree with G, not sure what meeting in person will accomplish except more spew.
He is trying to get you to hear him. Since to him it seems like you arent....he is yelling louder.
If he wants to divorce, let him do what he needs to do. Dont help it along, but, dont try to fight it either. That will only make him dig in deeper.
I am sorry this hurts. I am sorry he is in crisis. I know without a single doubt that you will get through this.
He is in bad shape right now. His mind is going a mile a minute. Get off the ride...
