Yes, you should have access to joint accounts. I don't know how the financials were handled prior to S, although I do know you should have access to anything joint.
In regards to his stuff, that's your call. Is it really bothering you? If so them you could put the stuff in boxes. If not, I wouldn't push on that. My xh hasn't even forwarded his mail and left his checkbook. Granted not too many checks written as everything pretty much is done online...still.
I think you are doing fine. What do you want input on? Again, I don't say that to be harsh. It feels like you are getting impatient and that's understandable. Limbo is difficult. However, right now your h doesn't want to be in a R with you and said he's dating. I'm not advocating dating-just recapping what has been stated. Please know that I don't say that to be hurtful although I do understand the pain you feel. I mean really. Who thought they would get married and their h would would be dating while M? However, this is where many people are.
What do you want to do? Your h knows you don't want a D and you want to R.
Hang in there! It sounds like you have made lots of great changes to a VIP-you!!!
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer
