With all do respect Rppfl , thats a crazy way to think . Im in essence trying to chase the OM away just like a male lion or buck deer when another male is trespassing in his territory .
Dawgy, I'll readily admit that I may be crazy. And I do understand being angry. It's the physical assault I don't get. With all due respect, your W has made it pretty clear she is no longer "your territory". If OM were physically attacking your wife - or anyone else- sure, go ahead and be the protector. That would be right. But loading groceries in the car?
Maybe most men do want to beat up someone in a parking lot. But they don't.