With all do respect Rppfl , thats a crazy way to think . Im in essence trying to chase the OM away just like a male lion or buck deer when another male is trespassing in his territory . I would never hurt my family in anyway . Conversely to me I was protecting them from the predator and thats how i look at it . Now that being said i do agree that it was the wrong thing to do but my instincts took over and the male lion in me was chasing away the competition . Watch some nature programming . We humans are civilized yes but not so different from our animal friends . I know Im gonna catch a load of critisism for this but thats precisely what i need to help me . One thing my son learned was his father is no push over and he stands up and protects his family . If the wife want to nuture the OM , so be it .Its her life shes throwing away . And all do respect to DBing practices things were not working for me anyway . She was still carrying on the A and things were still spiraling downward for my family sitch . keep the feedback coming , its much appreciated . And by the way , I did what most men on here want to do to their wives OM . I finally snapped , and it felt good Dawgy


Me 45 W 45
Son 16 Son 14
Married 23 together 27
W threatened sep several times
W still at home
A discovered Mar 17 2014
A ended DEC 2 ( skeptical )