Hi Ahoy, my feelings exactly. I think thats what DR and DB boil down to, don't stay in limbo, move on with you. Your H will do whatever he will do. I have huge respect for you and understand your dilema. In my humble opinion, carry on with your GAL and all that entails, if the worst comes to the worst then know if and when you are ready for your next R, you will be a real catch and your H was a fool to lose you. Take care RD500
