Stop the mind-reading. There really is no manual on affairs, there might be similarities but you can't depend on any of that.
What does all that have to do with your children and what you know about OM? You say neither of them can move but they are in a R, right? So they see each other, right? And will now most likely see each other more now.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss