Hi Ahoy, I wish all of us on this site could meet once or twice a week because the support and caring goes beyond belief.. I find it amazing that the people on here have all these issues with thier R's. I understand that sometimes we (ME) realise to late after BD but I after reading some of your posts and the caring that clear in the your H must be in a fog !!! Whatever you decide, please take your time. My own twopence worth is that alot of these WAS seem to be in a MLC and once its reached it seems hard to get them back. I am far from an expert but form my own sitch , they seem to focus on ANY future without you. Stay strong and take care. RD500
