Hi, daring, I'm glad my thread is helping you. There are some wise people on this board.

I got text spew this morning. It stung. I'll be ok.

Some highlights from him:
I don't want to fight but I'd like to get the papers filed. They are straight forward. When can I give to you to sighn?
I need you to refi the car into your name
I can't put that on my shoulders. I have to take care of me now.
I can't and won't be with you. I am not going to take that chance to repeat the beating I took.
Too much bad stuff happened. Please move on. We can't be together.
Nothing has changed

I responded (not to each text) but kept it short. Just ok's and "I'm sorry you feel that way". Nothing I do or say matters. This train is going to crash. I'm trying so hard to prepare but it still hurts.

He was really sweet to me for a long time. Now back to this. Out of nowhere. No point in wondering why.