Ok that was a half-asleep ramble.

Solutions to these issues

- being more communicative and cooperative with W. Letting her know my schedule and being more flexible with her needs. Today I have taken off from work as oldest is home sick w fever. This is hard for me to do as it gets me in hot water at work and behind on tasks, but I did it

- not acting or speaking out of resentment or passivity to W.

- working on myself, self health. Quitting smoking. Going to gym 3x week. Getting back into my interests that were more important to me when I met W - literature, history, writing. Working toward a career that incorporates this.

These are pretty nebulous goals. I need to work harder on specifics.


M: 33
W: 33
M: 9 T: 10
3 S's: 8, 6 and 1.5
BD: 8/3/14
Living together