EA then PA with her ex

[Anaru]

So she wants to have sex with you while having sex with the OM? I hope you really don't think that's wise.

She has stopped having sex with OM she says.
It happened 5 or so times Mar-Aug this year, while I was away on business travel.
I got an STD test (negative). She thought that was ridiculous as OM is a family Dr. (not ours needless to say but he practices in the city we live in) - and she knew he was also having sex with one other woman over the summer.I insisted, suggesting a test for her would not be a bad idea seeing as OM sleeping around. Gave her pause for thought.
So I am taking it as a step forward that she tells me that with OM it was not so great and with me good and she wants more with me.