guess my question is, should I just ask her what she feels is comfortable with? should I just try implementing things and see note the reactions (as book suggests) and only use ones that work? even though sometimes there isn't much reaction from her period....
me-42 w-33 d-3 together-6 m-4yr 6/1/14-w check out 6/15/14-EA? 8/1/14-mc 9/1/14-IDLY-started DBing 9/15/14-w suggest separation 10/17/14 wife is done 12/13/2014 - wife move out me file 1/1/15