Mighty, when my xh and I were going to tell my son he was leaving, we discussed exactly what we were going to say. No blaming, nothing negative about the other. We stood on the steps and shook hands.
We then went downstairs to tell our son. My son made a sound I will never forget. These are the words he heard when he found out his family was being torn apart. "I am leaving because of things your mother did and didnt do in the marriage." Yep, right under the bus I went.
My son ran out of the house. I looked at my h and said, "I dont think there are words to tell you what I feel right now. Scratch that, there are words, but you arent worth the effort." He said, "I'm so sorry. I didnt mean it that way. I will explain it to son." I said, "It doesnt matter what you say now. He will always remember the first words heard when his world was turned upside down."
Your son got stuff out. I hope it helps him. But you expecting it to have any effect on your xh, isnt healthy for you. They are broken, M. I mean really...who does what your h has done?
You saying anything to him would just be you spinning your wheels. Truthfully, he isnt going to hear it.
As far as the ow...she cant shine your shoes. She isnt worthy of one thought in your head, M.
So, let this sit. Leave your xh and her to their pathetic lives. Let them blow in the wind.
Mighty is in for some changes.....yahooooo!!!!!! You are going to rock them.
